How to Notice When You Are Creating Heaven

Heaven: “This is wonderful. I could stay here forever.”
Hell: “This is not quite perfect.”
– Byron Katie
From her book, I Need Your Love – Is that True?

What separates us from animals involves our intellectual capacity, our ability to think and reason. Yet, for the most part, most of us, most of the time don’t notice that our thinking causes our misery.

The minute we think any external circumstance, experience or person causes our happiness, we have begun to create our own private hell. And, we do this innocently, often without conscious awareness, thousands of times a day.

“I wonder if he likes me.” “If I can just hang in there until I get more clients.” “I’ll feel better when the kids calm down.” “I can’t wait until it stops raining.” “When I make more money…” “As soon as I lose the weight…” “Once I get the car fixed…” “It will be better when I get divorced, married, retired…” “If only…”

You get the idea. Once we become aware of our particular brand of this regurgitated thought, we can begin to consciously question it and/or take it less seriously and allow it to pass without engaging with it.

How to Notice When You Are Creating Heaven

When we remember that our essential nature is Love and well-being, we begin to become aware of the wonder in every moment, in every experience. When we remember that we are like the sun and the eternally blue sky and our thoughts are like the clouds, we can enjoy our Light and be gracious about allowing the clouds to pass.

And, we may just notice ourselves saying more and more frequently, “This is wonderful. I could stay here forever.” Regardless of what our circumstances look like.

(Excerpted from my forthcoming book, “Strong from Within: Simple perceptions and practices for returning to the joy of you“)

4 comments to How to Notice When You Are Creating Heaven

  • Ann Strong

    Ken, Dianne and Bill, thank you all for taking the time to comment. I love receiving feedback!


    Hi Ann,

    How true the locus of control, in action!

    That peace of mind of course…we must not forget Grace, now that is Amazing!

    big thanks for all your ‘Strong Thoughts’

    Bill Davis UK

  • Dianne Deloren

    Ann, I am really enjoying your blogs, and look forward to them. They are truly an inspirational reminder in my day.

  • Ken

    You continue to amaze me! I could just follow your writing and never read another book! Once again, you’ve nailed excellent words to live by, and I could sit here typing this forever (except that I need to hit “Send”).

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