Confident Vulnerability changed my life. I learned this empowering way of being in my advanced StrengthsFinder® training a couple of years ago. Thank you DeAnna Murphy of Strengths Strategy!
Confident Vulnerability looks like this.
I know what I am. I know what I’m not. I’m comfortable, confident and non-judgmental with and embrace both. I am confident in my strengths and vulnerable about the needs of my strengths and my weaknesses. This also allows me to embrace what you are and what you are not without judgment.
Full disclosure: I am still working on doing all of this more consistently.
And, as I embraced confident vulnerability as a way of life, I quit trying to hide or apologize for my weaknesses. That then freed a bunch of energy to be more fully who I am without messing around in the areas of who I’m not.
And one day recently, it occurred to me that I do not need permission to be who I am, to do what I do, to live how I live, to explore what I feel drawn to explore.
And, neither do you.
How would the world shift if we all lived in confident vulnerability, full out, unapologetically?
What if we weren’t afraid of what people will think?
I do love doing my part.
Last week I was in San Diego attending the Ascend conference. Anyone who knows me well knows that I’m not exactly the athletic type. Well, after hanging with my 12-year-old nephew Justin and 15-year-old niece Hailey, in the few minutes each evening in San Diego before it got dark, I engaged in my new sport.
Yes, I have a new sport.
Four Square. Yes, the one little kids play. It’s never too late to start. I love this game. Who wants to come to the Land of Enchantment and join me?
No permission needed. Permission slips unnecessary as well!
(Excerpted from my forthcoming book, “Strong from Within: Simple perceptions and practices for returning to the joy of you”)
2 thoughts on “No Permission Needed”
Hmmmm, I wonder what you might be up to if no one were watching?!?
I’m reminded of that quote:
“You’ve gotta dance like there’s nobody watching,
Love like you’ll never be hurt,
Sing like there’s nobody listening,
And live like it’s heaven on earth.”
― William W. Purkey
He didn’t add, “And accept yourself, regardless.”
A good thought for me to embrace—I am for sure concerned about what others think of me. And, I can accept that about myself. Probably. Maybe.